Confession. I’m feeling kind of empty and still right now, and I’m working on taking The Happy College Girl in a new direction. Instead of writing a coaching-oriented blog as per usual, I thought I’d just give you a rundown of what I’ve been listening to and doing for the past few weeks.
Stuff I use and like:
Milk Makeup Holographic Stick in Golden Peach. Someone at Sephora recommended this to me and I LOVE it. I put it on my cheeks, eyelids, cupid’s bow, under my nose, and on my chest and shoulders. It makes my skin shimmer, makes me look more put together and polished, and helps my very pale skin look good in pictures. This is becoming pretty much the only makeup I put on now.
Milk Makeup Flex Concealer in Fair. This stuff is easy to put on and lasts for hours and hours. It makes my face look bright and fresh, and gives me natural-looking coverage on my acne/blemishes.
Speaking of acne/blemishes…Dandelion Root by Nature’s Way. I take 9 of these babies every day for my skin, as per the recommendation of my family’s naturopath. My skin and I are going through a thing. It’s frustrating and I hate it. Trying to stay peaceful…also because stress contributes to skin craziness.
Invisible Shield daily sunscreen by Glossier. As I said above, I have very pale skin, so I’m suuuper conscious of wearing sunscreen, hats, limiting time in the sun, etc. Obvi we all do this in the warmer months, but we also need to protect our skin from UV and infrared light all year round. This sunscreen’s light, gel-like formula goes on so easily and doesn’t mess up any makeup or do anything weird to my moisturizer. I just put it on my face and arms before I leave the house and my skin is protected. Plus, the creator of Glossier, Emily Weiss, was on an episode of The Hills. She was the “super intern” from NYC whaaaat.
Stuff I listen to and like:
Kesha’s Praying is giving me the feels. It’s so nice to hear her actual, raw voice. She’s back!
The Lady Lovin’ podcast kicks ass. I binged on it during my recent drive to and from home. Those girls just make me feel happy and inspired. They talk about boys, beauty, health/wellness, feminism, food, sex, and so much more. You gotta listen!
Holy crap and Summer Innanen’s latest podcast episode with feminist marketing consultant Kelly Diels CHANGED MY LIFE. These girls talk about how some online female lifestyle brands co-opt female empowerment (mostly with innocent intentions) to make money, exert control, and promote a specific feminine ideal (ahem, white, thin, pretty), instead of leading and actually creating change in the world, as they say they’re doing in their marketing. This episode is helping me look at The Happy College Girl with a much more critical, social justice-oriented eye. Wowza.
P.S. Kelly Diels talks about how black feminist writers bell hooks and Audre Lorde arguably invented the idea of “self-care.” White women (myself included) talk SO much about how self-care impacts our lives and the world, but that very idea was pretty much invented by bell hooks and Audre Lorde to help sustain other black women, feminists, LGBTQ folks, and other marginalized populations in their fight for equality. Mind. Blown. So. Humbled.
Let’s end this blog on that high, awakening note, okay? Just recapping all of the stuff I’ve been using/listening to has me inspired!